free lunch?

i know a single woman who is on the fatter side of healthy. she has been very successful professionally. she does not have a lot of friends. she is smug. she just got fired. she does not have a significant other. she just bought another apartment. she is incredibly materialistic. she has the latest of everything. she does not listen. she has proclaimed that she will not have a significant relationship until her parents are dead. she makes that bed every fucking day, and then complains about having to lie in it. why does this bother me so? because her bubble of regret and unsatisying choices, is not stagnant. it moves from here to there. it touches other people. people i care about. people i despise. regardless, i know a single woman who is on the fatter side of healthy. she is not taking the responsibility to make productive and satisfying choices for herself. and i always have to pay.

there is no free lunch.

she could skip lunch for a few weeks.